Sunday, February 18, 2007

Chuc Mung Nam Moi...

If you're wondering what, "Chuc Mung Nam Moi,"means, it is Happy New Year Vietnamese style. This is the year of the pig or boar. If you were born in the years; 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, then you're a pig or a boar. Until traditional American zodiacs, Vietnamese and Chinese zodiacs are every 12 years. The zodiacs area as follows; rat, ox, tiger, rabbit, dragon, snake, horse, sheep, monkey, roaster, dog, and boar. And every year, the New Year follows under a diffferent date. As far as tradition and cultures go, there is a lot of preparation, time and work that goes into event. Here are the symbols of the New Year, "Tet."

I know it is long but you'll get a better understanding. Enjoy.

Cay Neu




Cay neu is a bamboo pole (New Year's Tree) stripped of its leaves except for a tuft on top. Red paper is used to decorate the tree, which is planted outside the house during the Tet holiday. The cay neu has Taoist origins and holds talismanic objects that clang in the breeze to attract good spirits and repel evil ones. On the very top, they frequently place a paper symbol of yin and yang, the two principal forces of the universe. Sometimes a colorful paper carp flag will fly from the top. The carp (or sometimes a horse) is the vehicle on which the Kitchen God travels to make his report. This tree is more common in the countryside now than in the city. It is ceremonially removed after the seventh day of Tet.

Hoa Mai




While Peach tree is preferred in the North, Hoa Mai is more commonly used for this ceremony in the South because of the warm weather. Hoa Mai is a small, yellow flowering plant that is used for decoration during Tet with the meanings of prosperity and well-being for the family. The value of these flowers is determined by the number of petals - the more petals, the more expensive the flower.

Kumquat Trees




Kumquat trees about two or three feet tall are carefully selected and prominently displayed during Tet. To carefully choose a kumquat bush, the buyer must pay attention to the symmetrical shape, to the leaves and to the color and shape of the fruit. The bushes have been precisely pruned to display ripe deep orange fruits with smooth clear thin skin shining like little suns or gold coins on the first day of the lunar new year. Other fruits must still be green to ripen later. This represents the wish that wealth will come to you now and in the future. The leaves must be thick and dark green with some light green sprouts. The fruits represent the grandparents, the flowers represent parents, the buds represent children and the light green leaves represent grandchildren. The tree thus symbolizes many generations. Guests will caress the light green leaves about to sprout and compliment the discerning host who chose so carefully.

The "Mam Ngu Qua"




The "five-fruit tray" on the ancestral altar during the Tet holiday symbolizes the admiration and gratitude of the Vietnamese to Heaven and Earth and their ancestors, and demonstrates their aspiration for a life of plenty. As one theory goes, the five fruits are symbolic of the five basic elements of oriental philosophy: metal, wood, water, fire, and earth. Some people believe that the five fruits are symbols of the five fingers of a man's hand that is used to produce physical wealth for his own use and to make offerings to his ancestors. However, in a simpler way, the five fruits represent the quintessence that Heaven and Earth bless humans. This is one of the general perceptions of life of the Vietnamese, which is "When taking fruit, you should think of the grower". Today, the tray may contain five or more fruits, in the form of a pyramid like before or in an different shape. Regardless, it is still called the Mam Ngu Qua, the five-fruit tray.

Fire Crackers




The most exciting element in the celebration of Tet is the lighting of trang phao (fire crackers). These explosions are believed to drive off ghosts and evil spirits and leave good luck in their place. As thousands of households simultaneously partake in this fantastic part of Tet, the level of volume and excitement rises to a fury. This level of emotion is the most memorable part of Tet and also the part which makes it such a marvelous experience. However, firecrackers are no longer used as the government banned them in 1995.

Banh Chung




It is a square cake, wrapped in banana leaves and tied with laces of flexible bamboo slivers. It is a very rich food for the interior contains a filling of bean paste to which may be added small bits of pork meat, both fat and lean. This filling, which is amply seasoned, is pressed between layers of glutinous rice. Its square shape is considered a symbol of the thankfulness of the Vietnamese people for the great abundance of the Earth, which has supplied them with nutritious food throughout the four seasons of the year.

Cau Doi (Parallels)



Composing, challenging and displaying parallels represents an elegant cultural activity of the Vietnamese. On the occasion of Tet, parallels are written on red paper and hung on both sides of the gate, the pillars or the ancestral altar. Each pair of parallels has an equal number of words with contrasting or corresponding meanings and lines of verses. They show a keen intelligence, perception of nature and social life, uphold morality and a yearning for the well-being of all people. The red is symbolic of auspicious and powerful vitality, according to popular belief. Mingling with the green of the banh chung, the pink of the peach blooms, the yellow of the hoa mai, and the red of the parallels is sure to make the Spring warmer and cozier.

Xin Xam



After Giao Thua, the last day of the lunar calendar year, many Buddhists go to their favorite pagoda to pray for a good year and to get a fortune reading for the whole year. Each person will get a chance to shake the tube that contains reading sticks, until one stick falls out of the tube. In the case that many sticks drop out of the tube, that person will have to repeat the process. Afterwards, usually the monks will translate the meanings of the reading.

Monday, February 12, 2007

Family Picture Day...

Well, I know that it is way late, but later is better than not at all. For Dominic's first birthday, Nyoka had scheduled for a family picture day. We went to Sears Portrait on Sunday, 05 November 2006 at 1300. We were there, ready to get in, take pictures, review them, oreder them, and leave. But I guess they say that they work on baby time. Meaning, they well see us when they are done with another group. 30 minutes went by and nothing. Finally after 45 minutes, they came out and said that we were next. It was pasted Dominic's nap and he was getting really irritated. He would not sit still or did he want to laugh. The employee did nothing to try to make him smile and laugh. It was pretty much a waste of time. You know how Nyoka is with time and with that she spoke her mind about. She was cursing and hollering and everything...J/K. But she did speak her mind. She was really irritated and told me to take care of the situation. I was like, alright! Lets go home and reschedule. The lady said that we can reschedule here. Nyoka said,"NO THANK!" I am probably over exaggerating but I think thats how it all went down.

We went home and I had called Sears Portrait back and reschedule for, Friday, 25 November 2006 at 0800. It was also at a different Sears Portrait. There is noway that I would go back to the other one. Anyways, I knew if I schedule it for the morning, nothng would go wrong. I was right. We were in and out in no time. The lady was a much nicer lady to work with. She was really flexible. I would recommend her to anybody. She was very professional. The pictures turned out great and we all loved it. Well I'll let the picture speak for itself, enjoy.



Sunday, January 07, 2007

Happy New Year 2007...

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Hope everyone enjoyed 2006, I know I sure did. The first half for me was enjoyable. I got deployed to a wnoderful land of sand for six months. The last half was more relaxed and enjoyable because I came home and spent it with family and friends. The years come and go... I have noticed that the year is coming and going a lot faster has you get older. I can remember when I was in school, the time went by so slow. The school year seemed like it got longer each year. But when I graduated, the years went by so fast, blink and you lost a year. Anyways.

Since the last post, this is what has been going on for us... NOTHING!!! This year we were suppose to go to Hawaii with Dad, Mom, Linh, and Trang for Christmas but plans changed. oh well Hawaii well always be there. Dad and Mom stayed home. Linh and Trang went up north. Nyoka, Dominic, and I went home to Lousiana. Mom, Sam, Chenoa, Aron, and Chris were to meet up with us in Lousiana. It was fun times. Nyoka's mom side of the family had a reunion. It was fun, the food was great and the company was fantastic. We saw a lot lot of the family this time. Again the food was great.

Naturally everytime we're in Lousiana, I was go hunting with uncle Bill. This time was for sure that I was going to see a deer and get a kill. Yet again I failed to see and kill a deer. Uncle Bill had brighten my day up when he showed me a newspaper article that showed a 47 yr old man just shot and killed his first deer. maybe next time, that's what I always say to myself.

Spending New Year in Lousiana in always fun and thrilling. Here I get to buy fireworks and they're the kind that go bomb in the air. Thats right aerial fireworks. the fun ones. The first time that I was in Lousiana was during New Year 2002 and better believe that I bought fireworks that year too. It was great. It was the year that I meet some of Nyoka's family, both sides.

Anyways, I'll close it for now. Here are some pictures from the trip. Enjoy...


Thursday, November 23, 2006

Happy 5th Anniversary...



Well, we finally hit half a decade, that's five years of marriage for Nyoka and mysef. So many things have happen since we got married. Lets recap; Nyoka went to Physical Therapy School. I went to Preventive Medicine Tech school. The October 2003 San Diego fire, Aron and Chris staying in California, transfering to Camp Pendleton, moving to Fallbrook, moving 3 different times in San Diego, conception of our first baby, the birth of Dominic, and fianlly me deploying to Iraq and making it back safe and sound.

I was in Iraq when Nyoka had decided to make plans and arranged for our anniversary. I was going to plan it but she sounded so thrilled and wild about plannung our anniversary. Even though she was planning the event, I thought that I would just look and plan a back up plan. Temecula is a neighboring city just north of Falllbrook and there were lots of things to do, especially out in wine country. Our 3rd anniversary she had planned a weekend out that way and she wanted to explore the wine country but something came up and we did not do what she had planned for us to do. Anyways, I thought that I would make it up to her.

One day a got a message from her saying that the Bead and Breakfast that she planned for us to go was not in the business anymore. I immediately wrote her back and told her that I'll plan the anniversary. I got back on the internet and started to look for B&B's around Temecula. I was also looking for something exciting to do. I ran across and hot air balloon tour and thought, now that is a great idea. I also found a B&B that was recommeded by the hot air balloon company. Mind you that I was in Iraq looking and planning. The balloon company also launched their balloon at a vinyard, which was perfect because I had pallned on taking her for wine tasting.

When I got back to the states, I immediately started to make plans and book reservation for the B&B and the balloon ride. I told her that we were going to do base jumping for our anniversary. She did not mind it at all, so she says.

Well I'll stop typing and the pictures well tell all. Enjoy.


Saturday, November 04, 2006

Dominic's First Birthday...


One year ago from today, we were eagerly anticipating the arrival of our most precious gift & as most will remember the best part was not knowing whether the baby was going to be a boy or a girl. Well on 04 November 2005, God blessed us w/the most precious baby we’d ever laid eyes on. On this day, Dominic Loc Luciano Duong made his, long awaited, grand entrance into our HUGE family.

The day we were leaving the hospital to come home, there was a saying that we saw painted on the wall & oh how true. Here’s what it said:

A Son . . .
There is nothing like the blessing of a little baby boy to fill your home w/sunshine & fill your heart w/joy. With hugs & bugs & footballs, baseballs, toys & grins, you’ll cherish all the memories that you will share w/him. Take the time to walk & talk, to share his dreams & plans, all too soon your little boy will grow to be a man.


Looking back over the past year, granted the journey hasn’t been smooth sailing, my how time fly’s. Dominic, you have grown from a state of total dependence, to one of wonder and curiosity. Our little explorer, you truly have amazed us in this past year & we can’t wait to see what lies ahead, however, no rush. Thank you for filling this chapter of our lives w/great joy. We love you, mommy & daddy.




Ok, enough of the mushy stuff. We had a big to do @ the house w/loads of friends & family. The theme was baby Einstein & as for the food…It was a mixture of both cultures. We had Vietnamese fried rice, egg rolls & shrimp chow mien, w/pasta salad (the Italian side) & veggies. Dominic received tons of gifts, gift cards & cash (which ended up in his bank account). But more importantly we spent the day w/all of whom we love and care about. To all thanks for making Dominic's special day the best.

Well hope you enjoyed the “brief synopsis,” now enjoy the pictures.





Halloween 2006...

This time last year Dominic was still "baking in the oven," so to speak. This year we got to share the fun of dressing up w/him. The daycare center had a Harvest Festival where each class would go from room to room trick or treating. Each class was dressed differently. There was a class of commandos, a class dressed as lady bugs and such. Dominic's class was dressed up as pumpkins from the pumpkin patch. They made their hats, and little cuffs for their legs out of construction paper. The cutest part was their shirts. The pumpkin design was already their, but the little tykes got to finger paint their pumpkins. Let's just say that all still need practice coloring between the lines.

Later that evening we got dressed up as a family. Obviously Dominic was a monkey, Tam decided he wanted to be a punked out clown & I was trying to be Jane Jetson from the cartoon way back in the day. Let's just say when I dye my hair, red won't be the color I choose. We thought Dominic would be afraid of his daddy's costume, but he kept poking him in the eyes and laughing. Since Dominic is still to young to eat candy we decided to stay home and pass out candy. Dominic tried his best to be a big helper, but all he wanted to do was keep the candy for himself. All in all it was a great time had bay all.

Now please, if you will direct you attention to the slide show below. Love ya'll.





Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Pumpkin Patch Experience...



Nyoka and I took Dominic to a pumpkin patch this past Saturday. I think he really enjoyed it. It was a place called, "Bates Nut Farm", in Escondido. The place was packed full of kids and their parents. Parking was a nightmare and it was not a regular parking lot. The parking lot was a big grass area and it was laid down with a lot of hay. They had games, food, crafts, pony rides, petting zoo and a bunch of other activities for the kids. I think it was the only time that kids out numbered the adults. It was really fun for the three of us. If I knew this place exisited when Aron and Chris was here, I know that I would have taken them here to pick out there own pumpkins. Well I'll let the pictures tell the story of fun and exciting time at Bates Nut Farm.

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

My First Trip To Disneyland...



Daddy and Mommy finally took me to Disneyland this past weekend and I had loads of fun. We meet a lot of the characters and took pictures with them. The hard part was waiting in line to take pictures with them. But overall it was worth the wait.

The fun part of the nmorning was the breakfast. We had breakfast with Minnie Mouse and her friends. There was Winnie the Pooh, Tigger, Eeore, Fairy God Mother, Chip and Dale, Captian Hook and many more. Breakfast was awesome too. I had an omlet, some pancakes, orange juice and potato. MMMMmmm, it was good.

We walked to Fantasyland, Adventureland, and Mickey's Toon Town. I meet Mickey inside his house. We toured his house and at the end of the tour he was waiting for us. Mommy and I took pictures with him. Well I was asleep but but I know that I would have enjoyed meeting Mickey.

Well here are some pictures of the trip to Disneyland...

Sunday, September 24, 2006

1st Trip 2 Da Beach


This past weekend we hung out in Los Angeles, visiting with Tam's sisters. For the most part we just hung out with family, starting w/a birthday dinner party for one of the cousins on Friday. So Saturday we decided to go to the beach. This was Dominic's first experience at the beach and I must say he really enjoyed it.

Although the water was colder than expected. We only got our feet wet, yes, the water was just that cold. Dominic loved playing on the swings (which we haven't seen at any park), crawling around in the sand (of which he chased a bird), but his most memorable moment came when he decided he wanted to eat some of the sand. Walking was even a bit of a challenge, but he looked absolutely adorable in all his attempts.

Besides the beach, Dominic learned how to climb stairs, open doors & push buttons on a gate. Not to mention he liked taking off CD's & DVD's from his aunt's entertainment center. Let's just say he kept us busy, but we tuckered him out.

Anyhow, we hope you enjoy the following pictures.

Talking intently w/Aunt Linh.

Taking a stroll down to the water w/daddy.

"I don't think I'm ready for this!"

"Buddy, it'll be ok. Mommy will go w/you."

"Can you say, cheese?"

"Weeeeeeeee...."

"Well, I had a real fun day. Let's go wake dad up now."

"Look at me go...and go..."


"Hey I can climb stairs. Look out world."

Surprise

Well after 28 years, I've finally done it. I mustered up the courage to get, yeap you guessed it, a tattoo. Shocker, not quite sure. After all, I do have my navel pierced. As for the experience: it didn't hurt as bad as I thought it would & no I didn't cry; the most sensitive spot was over the spine itself; the artist did a remarkable job drawing up the design; he also did a great job explaining the process of how things would go; but most importantly was the sterile technique. After all that's been said and done, I would do it again, although I thought about backing out all weekend. Anyhow, I thought that I'd share the exciting news with you all as well as a picture or two. Hope you enjoy.
Love ya'll,
Nyoka
P.S. Chris, this is the surprise I was referring too.

(these pictures speak for themselves.)

Sunday, September 17, 2006

...Updates...

Sorry it's been awhile since our last entry. However, since Tam's return we've been go go go, and not to mention spending quality time together with family & friends. Any how here's updates of the latest and greatest in our lives thus far:

#1: 5 days before Tam's return, my friend from school & his wife welcomed their first child, a beautiful baby girl. Congrats again you guys. What an awesome gift. Here's her stats:

Name: Ruth Jamison Fletcher
Birthdate: 26 August 2006 (hey another august baby)
Weight: 5 lbs & 13 ozs
Length: 19 inches
Baby Jamison was born 5 weeks early, but very healthy and happy. We can't wait to see you guys again. December's just around the corner, literally.

1st mother (Cherish) & daughter (Baby Jamison) picture.

Miss Ruth Jamison Fletcher, welcome. We can't wait to meet you.

#2: Tam arrived on 8/31/06, as you can tell from our last entry.

#3: 9/2/06, we had a BBQ with friends and family to welcome home Tam. Sorry we didn't take pictures, but we sure did have a lot of great food, not to mention a wonderful time visiting and catching up with family & friends. Thanks, Rhianon for helping make Tam's welcome home sign. We still have it hanging in the garage.

Thanks again, Rhianon, for sharing your talent with me. Plus I had a blast just hanging out with you.

#4: Again, just a lot of catching up with family and friends & not to mention hanging out around the house.

#5: 9/16/06, Tam & I went shopping for bikes (the peddling kind :-)). In the end we both came away with Gary Fisher bikes. Tam has a Big Sur & I have a Tassajara. Can't wait for our first riding trip, but we still need to get a trailer for Dominic. That way he can enjoy our adventures with us, so I guess we'll have to wait.

Later on that same evening, we went to dinner with our friends The Alabaladejo's (Joe, Regina & Isabelle-Izzy). Okay, so we all must love to hang out and eat and our favorite food must be Thai. Just got to love good food and even better company. My how Izzy has grown and what a cutie to boot. Look out Joe, she'll be dating before we can all say supercalifragilisticexpialidocious (yes, I looked this one up).

Daddy (Joe) & his little girl (Isabelle).

Mommy (Regina) & her baby girl (Isabelle).

#6: 9/17/06, after church today, Tam, Dominic & I met up w/our long time friends the Boles' family (Mike, Teresa, Brenna, Jared & Alexandra). We met up for Mexican food @ On The Border. Okay so you're thinking we must just be eating fools and fat by now as it seems like we're always eating. But after lunch we walked around the mall (burning calories & all the food we just ate) & then headed to Cold Stone for some desert. It was rather refreshing as the temperature outside was 97 degrees.

Al "cheesing" for the camera, sitting on daddy's lap.

Dominic w/Uncle Mike & Al.

Well that sums up our many adventures thus far. So I will close w/a few extra pics, just for Linh. She's a diehard USC fan (duh, it's also her alumni) as well as an Angel's fan (so in love w/Kennedy). Anyhow, Linh, please enjoy. Take care everyone.

Love ya'll

Tam, Nyoka & Dominic

"Well hello there."

"Man I sure like this comb."

Always in the kitchen.

"Here daddy, let me help."

"Well come on already."

"Don't these people ever stop w/these pictures?"

P.S. As if you haven't guessed from one or two of the above pictures, our little one is walking. The day after the BBQ he took his second set of steps (the very first being in July). He did what is father had asked and waited until he came home. Good thing too, we were both excited and forgot to get some of them on tape. Man how amazing, to see the life you've helped create grow.